Disagreement treated as betrayal
This can bind having a different view to the threat of losing the relationship.
Linked action: In a lower-risk setting, state one disagreement in one sentence without adding a defence.
SAMPLE REPORT
This page publishes a complete sample of the US$14.99 report, built from invented answers for a fictional reader called “Sample A”. It exists so you can judge the depth, length and tone before paying, not to show a real person's result.
Read it as a document review. The sample shows six sections: a three-part profile, the four patterns the reader endorsed most, a comparison of contact strategies, a 24-hour / 7-day / 30-day plan, an optional device-local trend, and a plain statement of limits and support routes. Your own report will use your answers, so the patterns, order and plan will differ.
The sample below is fictional. It is not your result, not clinical advice, and not a template to fill in yourself. If you are in danger, contact local emergency services before reading further.
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This report analyzes your 24 answers item by item. The overall descriptive mean is 3.0 / 5; it ranks priorities in this session. It is not a diagnosis, clinical severity grade, or judgment of anyone's personality.
| Family interaction patterns | 3.0 / 5 | Recurring in this session | Looks at control, invalidation, role reversal, and withdrawn affection in remembered family interactions. |
|---|---|---|---|
| Current impact | 3.0 / 5 | Recurring in this session | Describes current echoes in self-doubt, over-explaining, vigilance, and relationships. |
| Boundaries & self-regulation | 3.0 / 5 | Recurring in this session | Describes difficulty pausing, saying no, expressing needs, tolerating disappointment, and recovering after conflict. |
This can bind having a different view to the threat of losing the relationship.
Linked action: In a lower-risk setting, state one disagreement in one sentence without adding a defence.
Explanation can shift from communication into asking permission to exist.
Linked action: Limit one response to two sentences: the decision and the next step.
Your body may rapidly code displeasure as relationship danger.
Linked action: Orient for 90 seconds: feet on the floor, name five objects, then decide whether to reply.
Chronic over-responsibility can erode energy and judgment.
Linked action: Decline one nonessential caretaking task this week and track whether guilt falls with time.
No single pattern dominates these answers. Reversible adjustments can gather real-world evidence before a permanent relationship decision.
This questionnaire does not assess weapons, death threats, stalking, physical or sexual violence, financial control, or retaliation. If any are present, do not use this report to test the person's reaction; contact local specialist support and make a safety plan first.
When it may fit: When contact cannot yet be reduced but you need less entanglement: keep responses brief, neutral, and factual.
Caution: This is not emotional suppression. Process feelings and seek support in a safe place. Stop if it triggers escalation or retaliation.
When it may fit: When frequency, duration, or topics can be reduced: make contact less frequent and more predictable.
Caution: Define acceptable channels, times, and topics, plus how you will end an exchange.
When it may fit: When care, work, finances, or co-parenting require contact: use writing, one topic at a time, and keep records.
Caution: For legal, custody, or property issues, obtain local professional advice rather than relying on this report.
When it may fit: When ongoing contact clearly harms functioning or safety and practical support is in place.
Caution: Check housing, money, documents, care duties, digital safety, trusted support, and retaliation risk first; use specialist safety planning when danger is possible.
| Date | Overall | Family | Impact | Boundaries |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| No trend history has been saved on this device | ||||
If these experiences keep affecting sleep, energy, work/study, relationships, eating, or safety—or reducing contact cannot be done safely—take the trend record to a qualified mental-health professional or local domestic-abuse service. For immediate danger or risk of self-harm or harm to others, contact local emergency or crisis support now.
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This is a rule-driven interpretation of an original item bank. It has not completed expert content validation, bilingual back-translation, cognitive interviews, test-retest reliability, structural validity, or clinical criterion validation. It cannot diagnose you or anyone else and cannot determine violence risk.
Evidence boundary: APA guidance on NPD diagnosis; WHO LIVES principles of autonomy, safety, and support; and NIJ research on threats, stalking, weapons, and controlling behavior. Low-reactivity communication is an optional communication strategy, not a validated universal treatment.
Sources: APA · WHO LIVES · NIJ
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No. The answers, scores, and quoted lines were invented for illustration. It is the document structure you receive, not anyone's result.
It shows the same sections and level of detail, generated from invented answers. Your own four patterns and plan will differ.
Yes. It is published so you can judge the depth before paying. If the sample is not useful to you, the paid report is unlikely to be either.
No. It describes patterns in your answers and offers options. It cannot diagnose a personality disorder in anyone.
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